The Lie of the Culture- "I'm too young!"

"Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity."- 1 Tim. 4:12 -

As young adults, we often tell ourselves that we can't make a difference in this world because we're "too young." We automatically fall into the culture's mindset of immaturity and ruthlessness, doing anything to please our earthy desires with the excuse of being "young." I've seen so many fellow friends fall into this, such as high school kids partying and getting excessively drunk because that's the cool thing to do in high school since the culture says that they are "young" and "immature". But that is not the plan God has for us in our lives.

Recently in my quiet time with the Lord, my eyes were opened to Jeremiah 1. The Lord appoints Jeremiah as a prophet but in v. 6 Jeremiah states this, "I do not know how to speak; I am only a child." As we see here, Jeremiah doesn't think he can do anything big for the Lord because of his age. But God has a rebuke to this statement, "Do not say, 'I am only a child.' You must go to everyone I send you to and say whatever I command you" (v. 7). God can use anyone and everyone, no matter what age, sex, or race that they are. We need to not fall into the lies such as: "God only uses pastors to impact people for Christ", or "God only uses old wise people to impact others for Christ."

To recap, God can use every one of us, no matter how young or old we are. So my question is, are you ready? Are you ready to step up and make an impact in the name of Jesus? If not, I believe you need to re-look some of your core values in life because as Christians, we are called to strive after God, praying and asking Him to open doors for us to be used; to preach the Gospel, to serve the poor, and to help the widows in the church. My friends, we must step up and make an impact across the world, giving Christ all the glory and forwarding the Gospel to all the corners of the earth.

Forming Habits

The habits you form now are either going to set you up to win in life or struggle in life. Choose to win- form intentional positive habits.

As I laid in bed last night, I began to question our habits, as people, Christians, and as college students. How many of us are going to keep our same habits that we're forming now? Is what we're doing now setting us up for failure in life?

I've heard many stories of men whom have been plundered down by habits of addiction, such as with pornography. It was a habit that was formed early in their life that they didn't cut off, and because of their addiction(s), marriages are breaking up, kids are getting hurt, and their ankles are chained to the problem that they thought that was going to bring them happiness. Habits are so important! That is why being intentional and forming good habits, such as having a daily quiet time, or loving others, is going to set you up to win for Jesus.

I once heard someone say, "It takes one action to form a bad habit, but many actions to form a good habit." Statistics and research shows that it takes at least three weeks to form a good habit, a productive habit. But it takes one decision or action to form a corruptible habit.

So next time you find yourself doing something, ask yourself this question, "How does this bring me closer to Jesus?" There are so many lies and garbage out in the world today that everything we do in a day can lead us astray from the one who died on a cross for our sins. So lets work together towards pleasing Christ, pursuing Him, and forming habits of godliness that bring us closer to Him.

As scripture says in Colossians 3:17- "whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." Whether we are at school, work, watching a movie, or hanging out with friends- do it all in the name of Jesus- looking to become closer to Him every second of the day!

Marriage Statistic

Recently I was informed about this positive statistic:

1 out of 1,246 marriages ended in divorce when the couple: prays together, read their Bibles together, and attends church together- Harvard Study -

Some negative statistics that I also found were that:

70% of males have an affair; 60% of women have an affair throughout their marriage years

50% of marriages won't last longer than 14 years

Conclusion:

So doing those 3 positive actions stated above with your spouse reduces the chance of divorce from 50% to .001%!

God is SO VITAL in relationships!

Even if you are not married, set yourself up to "win" once you are married (if this is God's plan for your life). There are so many ways to do this, one of which is to have a consistent character in life. A definition of character is: who you are when no one is looking. So when you are alone, are you glorifying God with what you are doing with your time? If you do things that build your relationship with God, you are setting yourself up for once you are married, having a consistent Christ-honoring character which will overflow onto the love you have for your spouse. And if you are married and you are reading this blog- PRAY with your spouse, READ and WRESTLE in God's Word, and GO to church to have fellowship with other fellow believers.

As it says in 1 Corinthians 7, be content on where God has called you- whether your single or married, give God your all in which He will provide everything that you could ever want in your life plus so much more! (Matthew 6:33)